Plan your first night – No Surprises please!

First Night – I believe this term is used only in India. Anyways one night that is more special than everything else for every Indian. It’s basically because most of Indian men actually get to sleep with a woman for the first time. Hence there’s a lot of suspense that’s built up. Many get nervous, some get excited and very few act to the situation. You have to prepare yourself to be in that 3rd category. If you get nervous or excited you spoil the fun straight! How can you keep your cool on your first night? Plan! Not you alone but with your fiancé. Remember pre-wedding talks? Add this to the agenda. Please don’t organize your first night like you organize a Marketing campaign…but be well informed of what you are going to do.

The important fact to be considered is whether you are going to attempt sexual intercourse on the very first night or in the forth coming nights. The reason you should plan this ahead is because women have a lot of complications the first time they have sex. There is a thin inner skin covering the vaginal cavity. This skin needs to be ‘torn apart’ for the penis to enter in. Like any other part of the body ‘the tearing’ might be painful, shocking or even difficult. Slight bleeding is expected and for some women the hymen may be a little extra thick which means it may bleed more. You may not want to spoil your first night by inflicting pain to your newly wedded wife. So it’s actually a good idea to refrain from intercourse the first day itself. This is my suggestion. Please note that you would be very exhausted after the wedding and the reception thereafter. Take a good shower, brush your teeth again, wear light clothes and get ready for the First Night.