Plan pregnancy in advance

Now that you know the process of conception you can easily plan when to have your baby. Some may considering trying from day 1. For some children are great responsibilities and so plan to get pregnant after a year or so. In any case plan ahead. Remember pre-wedding talks? Add this to the agenda. Reach a consensus on when you want to get pregnant. The ideal way is to decide from when you would want to start trying. If you think you would be ready for a baby after two years you could plan to start attempting after one year of your marriage. Why should you decide? You should because you need to follow contraceptive methods to delay the pregnancy. Both of you should be comfortable trying a contraceptive way and it should be out of free will, not compelled.

Contraceptive Methods

If you ask any doctor the best way to avoid pregnancy is abstinence which means refraining from sexual intercourse. There no great punishment than forcing a newly married couple to refrain from intercourse. Sexual intercourse is something that you shouldn’t be missing for whatever reason at least for the first year. So the ideal way to help you enjoy sex as well stay away from getting pregnant is to adapt contraceptive ways. There are so many types of contraception. The most easy and economic way is the condom and the pills. Condoms do not allow the sperm to enter whereas the contraceptive pills would allow the entered sperms to get in touch with the egg. Pills use hormones so many people are apprehensive towards using it though many claim that they are absolutely safe. Condoms do not have any advert effects but definitely lessens the pleasure of sex. There are ultra-thin condoms available but definitely wouldn’t match the pleasure of a naked penis!

Issues using the condoms

A condom is a great tool to delay pregnancy but has its own setbacks. In a country like India buying a condom from a medical store needs immense courage. The stare you get from the guy in the pharmacy as well the people around you make you sick. Another issue is the mind set of men. Men think condom is a hindrance and great shame to their manliness. So the hard penis may soften once your wear the condom. Psychologists say it’s completely mind related and can be solved with a little bit of counseling and changing the way you think.

To get over the first issue drop into a grocery store and buy condoms in bulk so that you don’t have to face that completely uncomfortable situation often. To get over the second issue, one must be extremely strong in mind. Some suggest the softening of the penis is because there is no direct physical contact on the outer skin. Believe me your penis is a great attention seeker and wouldn’t budge until it’s given due attention. So do not wear the condom until the foreplay is over and you are planning to enter into her. Some suggest that you keep the condom open and ready to use in your hand a little while before you are going to enter her. As soon as you want to insert the penis, put on the condom and go ahead. The softening may be due to the time delay in reaching out to the packet, slitting it open and taking the condom out. It surely works!

Delayed Conception

For couples who don’t want to get pregnant and are playing safe only during the 10th to the 20th day delayed conception is a real threat. Remember I told you the egg when not getting in contact until the 20th day would start disintegrating? Sometimes the egg would survive for an additional 2-3 days. In that case on the 21st day when you don’t follow any contraceptive methods the egg would get matured. There are a number of ways to find if the ovulation periods are over.